Why?
On average two women a week are killed by their current or former partner in England and Wales. Many of these murders go unreported in the media and thus the loss of life is barely recognised other than by those left behind – a woman’s children, friends, work colleagues and family. Our journey is intended to mark the passing of these women in the UK and also to recognise the number of people ESDAS has supported to survive since we were founded 18 years ago. We will in essence be travelling from one domestic abuse service in the UK to one in Africa highlighting the pervasive and unbiased nature of domestic abuse. A secondary aim of the journey is to consider the benefits of ESDAS having a partnership with an international charity. Longer term, this may encourage new supporters who are interested in projects which have a local and international interest. It is also important to recognise the strong and consistent support we have received from our partners over a number of years and we hope to proactively show that we believe in the work of ESDAS.
Our Inspiration...
Unfortunately the UK recession has lead to significant cuts in our funding over the past few years which have threatened to undermine the services we offer to survivors of domestic abuse. The quotes below made by our service users inspire us to take on this journey and do what we can to ensure survivors of domestic abuse and their children continue to get the help they need.
“The service has given me courage, confidence and support. I had lost myself and now I stand tall knowing I am not alone. With your support I have aims and targets in my life. There is no quick fix – your patience and understanding allows me to grow and to know it’s not all my fault.”
“Words cannot express how grateful I am for the professionalism, empathy and support I have experienced through this service. I have seen my key worker be my advocate, mentor, counsellor and friend so many times always trying to get into the role that suited my situation at the time.”
“The service has been a life line, speaking to people who understand has really helped. You have given me guidance, clarity and support. It helps to have someone to validate what you're thinking and feeling as the situation can make you feel like you are going mad. It has been a huge support and shown me that although I cannot change other people's actions I can decide what I want to do and focus on. The support has been brilliant for me.”
